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When Relationships Go Wrong
When Relationships Go Wrong Last week I visited »The Black Umbrella Society« meet up again to gather inspiration for my new article and refresh the Ohlala Blog with exciting insights. For months I've been watching this event getting
More than just beautiful
More than just beautiful A new year has started and my thoughts revolve around past memories. Memories of past encounters that question my self-image as an attractive woman, whatever that even means. I have been in a state
The Power of Femininity
The Power of Femininity When we talk about the unspeakable in connection with the female genitals, it becomes clear that now is the time to pay hommage to the vulva, which is overdue for far too long. Obviously
Relationship Rules
Relationship Rules What does the black umbrella in Mark Turrell's chosen title of »The Black Umbrella Society« actually mean? A meet up that takes place monthly and of course I was there again. With the black umbrella Mark
Beziehungsregeln
Beziehungsregeln Was bedeutet eigentlich der schwarze Regenschirm in Mark Turrells auserwählten Titel von »The Black Umbrella Society«? Ein Meet up, das jeden Monat stattfindet und bei dem ich dieses Mal natürlich auch wieder dabei war. Mit dem schwarzen
The Ghost in Me
The Ghost in Me »He walked down a busy street Staring solely at his feet Clutching pictures of past lovers at his side Stood at the table where she sat And removed his hat In respect of her
Poly Mon Amour
Poly Mon Amour I always thought I knew exactly what I was looking for, what I was feeling and what I was dreaming about. I always thought I knew how to imagine a relationship, at least to some
TAKE OFF – Striptease for Queers
TAKE OFF - Striptease for Queers On the occasion of the 13th Pornfilmfestival, which took place here in Berlin last week, I met two great people for an interview, who gave a workshop next to the event. »Take
The Black Umbrella Society
The Black Umbrella Society Relationships are an important part of our lives that can make us happy, but also sad, sometimes even with the same person, on the very same day. Triggers play many factors, such as